Congratulations on being a nursing mom from the
moms on AOL’s Breastfeeding Support Boards! The following list
was created for you by moms who have succeeded at breastfeeding
children. We hope you will find their tips helpful.
1. Always feed your baby at the first sign of hunger and not
by the clock or a schedule.
2. Don't be thrown by growth spurts. They are normal and short
lived. The only accurate way to gauge how much the baby is taking
in is by counting wet and dirty diapers.
3. Buy yourself a tube of Lansinoh.
4. Get through the first 2 to 3 weeks. After that it is SO much
easier!!
5. Have phone numbers of breastfeeding-friendly people to help
you.
6. Remember that your breasts are never truly empty of milk.
You make milk as your baby nurses.
7. Always let the baby end the feeding himself. That way, he
will get all of the hindmilk he needs.
8. If you feel discouraged or like throwing in the towel, read
this list or 101
Reasons to Breastfeed. It has always helped me and I could
never quit after being reminded of why I was breastfeeding.
9. Check to see if you have inverted or flat nipples while pregnant,
because you can start correcting them before the baby is born.
10. The first few days till milk comes in, colostrum is really
all a baby needs. Nurse often on each side (every 90 minutes)
to make sure baby gets enough colostrum and to ensure milk will
come in soon.
11. Watching the clock, timing nursing sessions, and switching
breasts after x amount of minutes might just drive you and baby
crazy. Don't worry so much about the time, and feed baby on one
breast till she's satisfied before offering the other, which she
may or may not take at the same feeding.
12. It is not supposed to hurt to breastfeed. If it hurts, you
have one of two things happening, most likely:
a) A bad latch. Work on that first.
b) Thrush.
13. In the beginning and any time you have sore nipples, use
Lansinoh (USP modified lanolin, ultrapure medical grade) in the
purple tube from the pharmacy. If you have a sore or cracked nipple,
keep nursing on it and it will get better.
14. If it hurts for the first 30 seconds to a minute after latching
on and goes away, you are not doing anything wrong. It will get
better in a couple of weeks and be gone by 6 weeks. Sometimes
let-down can be painful in the beginning. That, too, goes away.
Severe or long-lasting pain, however, needs to be looked into;
it's probably very solvable.
15. A newborn who is pulling back and crying at the breast is
not rejecting you. It could be a growth spurt, forceful letdown,
thrush or just a tired or gassy baby. All can be dealt with.
16. A baby, especially newborn, is SUPPOSED to nurse all the
time (even every hour or two). That it is normal and does not
mean that your milk supply is low.
17. If a baby, especially newborn, is sleepy; she is growing.
Don't let a sleepy baby scare you into thinking she isn't getting
her nutrition. Jaundice might be a reason that baby is sleepy;
keep a close eye on her and contact your pediatrician if you suspect
that (see next tip). If she goes a long time without nursing,
try using a wet cloth or undress baby to wake her up during feedings.
18. Jaundice is not a reason to substitute formula for breastmilk,
no matter what the doctor wants you to think. A baby with a bilirubin
level of less than 20 is perfectly fine. Breastfeeding MORE during
jaundice, not less, is beneficial. Question anyone who tells you
differently and do your own research.
19. Nursing a newborn at least 10 to 12 times a day is a good
rule of thumb, and that doesn't mean the feedings will all be
evenly spaced. The number of feedings will decrease as baby gets
older. Also look for 6 to 8 wet diapers to ensure baby is getting
enough to eat. Some babies have BMs more often than others, but
when they do occur, they should be mustard yellow and a bit seedy
and loose.
20. Putting a baby, especially newborn, on a schedule may decrease
your milk supply, ending breastfeeding altogether. Feed on baby's
cue (sucking hand, quietly fussing, etc.), even if you think she
just ate and can't be hungry. She is growing, needs the comfort
and nutrition, and you need the milk stimulation in the early
weeks.
21. Some newborns will cluster nurse: feeding often for a few
hours then resting for several more. This is normal.
22. A baby being “big” does not mean he needs to be supplemented.
Your milk supply will be more than enough for him. Simply nurse
him as often as he wants to in the beginning, but don't think
that this "constant nursing" will last forever. He'll
become more efficient and your milk supply will increase to appease
him.
23. There are things you can do to increase your supply if need
be. Drink plenty of water. Rest. Take fenugreek or another herbal
supplement if the problem is serious.
24. Get a sling. It's a lifesaver. Maya Wrap slings and Over
The Shoulder Baby Holder slings are great ones!
25. Leaking: If you leak a lot, don't worry; this will subside
over time. If you don't leak much, don't worry; this is NOT an
indication of low milk supply.
26. Know when and what to expect during a growth spurt. (10 days,
3 weeks, 6 weeks, etc.) Baby may pull off breast, be a little
fussier, and/or nurse more often, building up your milk supply.
Nursing more often does not mean you aren't making enough milk
and baby needs formula; just the opposite -- baby is increasing
your milk supply for you by nursing more often.)
27. After 6 weeks, your breasts may not feel as full. This is
not an indication that you aren't making enough milk, just that
your body has adjusted to your milk supply. Around this time,
baby may nurse more because of a growth spurt. Don't let the feel
of your breasts and the increase in nursing make you worry.
28. Pumping is not a good indicator of how much milk you normally
make. Baby sucks more efficiently and differently than a pump.
Also, all pumps are NOT created equal.
29. Every bottle of formula given to a baby can:
a) decrease your milk supply, making one think that further supplementing
is needed since mom isn't "making enough milk".
b) increase the risk of nipple confusion.
c) even kill forever many of the immunities breastmilk offers,
once foreign substances enter the body.
30. Using a pacifier instead of nursing a baby may hinder your
milk supply.
31. Unless they have "IBCLC" after the "MD",
NEVER take accept as accurate ANYTHING a physician or nurse tells
you about breastfeeding; that is not required training for a pediatrician
or OB. Hear them out, but find a qualified lactation consultant,
excellent reference materials and a support group (online or in
real life) of breastfeeding women to get second, third and fourth
opinions.
32. If your baby is choking or throwing up during and after eating,
it could be you have a forceful letdown. The best way to fix this
is to nurse leaning back. This letdown will ease up over time,
and your baby will also get used to it.
33. Nurse laying down whenever possible, even if you don't want
to cosleep. Baby gets fed, you get rest.
34. Mom eating dairy might cause a baby discomfort in the early
weeks and months.
35. Dads can bond in every other way with the baby other than
feeding. Offering a bottle early on for dad to bond may interfere
with the nursing routine and risk ending it altogether.
36. Regardless of any problem you might encounter, there is a
solution that does NOT involve formula. If you hit a road block
it's merely a matter of getting accurate help. Talk to an Internationally
Board Certified Lactation Consultant (IBCLC) if you need serious
help. Only 3% of women medically CANNOT breastfeed; that means
97% of women can do it quite successfully, even if there are initial
problems.
37. Regardless of what one might think, formula, too, has its
downfalls and inconveniences that may not show up till later,
including inferior nutrition, increased health problems and cost.
Best to get the rough stuff out of the way now and have an easy
breastfeeding relationship later on.
38. Surround yourself with supportive people (and good books
and online help) and ignore the well-meaning non-supportive ones.
39. When pumping at work, always pump at least as often as your
baby would nurse. Add an extra pumping session early in the morning,
not at the end of the day, to increase supply.
40. Just because you are young does not mean you can't make the
best choices for your child -- and breastmilk is the best choice.
Don't let anyone try to tell you that you're too young to make
enough milk, or make nutritious milk. You WILL make enough, and
it will always be more nutritious than formula.
41. Trust yourself. Other people may try to tell you that you
are feeding your baby too often or that you should be feeding
solids or formula, but you will know what is best for your baby.
42. Educate yourself. This is the best way to know when you are
given bad advice from doctors or well-meaning family members.
Read as much as possible before baby is born.
43. Drink at least 64 oz. of water a day.
44. Eating peanut products while nursing can lead to potentially
fatal peanut allergies later in baby’s life.
45. When pumping and working you will need to drink at least
80 oz. of water per day. This does not include sodas or caffeinated
drinks. If you drink these you need to drink even more water.
46. When pumping and working, your baby can make your work day
his longest stretch without nursing, up to 6 hours, as long as
you feed every 2 hours during the night.
47. When working, if at all possible, go to your baby for your
lunch hour to nurse.
48. If you sleep with your baby you can nurse and sleep at the
same time if you do it lying on your side. You may not want to
do this in the beginning just to make sure you are awake enough
to see that he is eating enough. After 6 or 8 weeks you should
have a good breastfeeding relationship and can feed while sleeping.
49. Never hesitate to get help, even if you are not sure that
your problems are feeding related.
50. Feeding on demand is the best way to relieve or avoid engorgement.
It “teaches” your body to make the right amount for your baby.
51. Enjoy breastfeeding. He will only be a baby for such a short
amount of time. Let yourself love it!
52. If the situation arises where you lose your milk, know that
you have the possibility to relactate. If women who have never
lactated can induce lactation for adopted children, a formerly
nursing mom can relactate!
53. You may come across some well-meaning, but unsupportive people
who try to give advice and possible misinformation. There are
many myths about breastfeeding which most people still believe.
Just be prepared to smile, nod and get your own information.
54. Take a class or go to a support group to get yourself ready
before the baby is here.
55. Keep in mind that although you have heard stories of women
who were “unable” to breastfeed, almost all women can. We know
more about breastfeeding now than ever before, and have learned
that there is a solution to almost all breastfeeding problems.
56. Pump first thing in the morning because this is when you
have the most milk.
57. Remember that the evening is when you have the least amount
of milk. This doesn’t mean that you are losing your supply.
58. Before a growth spurt your baby will want to nurse more often
because he will be signaling your body to make more in order to
accommodate his growth spurt. Feeding on demand is the only way
to weather a growth spurt. This is the time when it is most important
to not supplement because that will signal your body to make less.
59. During growth spurts baby may sleep a lot, become fussy and
pull away from the breast crying (especially in the evening.)
Don’t be alarmed, this is normal. The best thing to do is provide
a lot of skin-to-skin contact and nurse, nurse, nurse.
60. Once you get past the first few months it will become second
nature to you, and you will find that it is so easy to breastfeed.
You never have to give feedings a thought because the food is
always right there, ready when baby is.
61. When you nurse in public it is helpful to have a sling because
the baby feels safe and it is totally discrete. Or you can nurse
and do housework at the same time!
62. It is very rare for a breastfed baby to “need” supplements.
If someone tells you he does, do your own research before believing
them.
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